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Finding happiness after Infertility

Mothers Day

Throughout our years trying for a baby Mother’s Day never really registered to me, it didn’t really affect me. I celebrated with my family, treated my mum and mother in law to afternoon teas, trips to London, family photo shoots,... Continue Reading →


Spring and being more positive

I have always loved March, firstly because my birthday is in March and secondly Spring, the woods I walk my dog in everyday are starting to flower so soon it will be covered in bluebells which is just so beautiful!... Continue Reading →

You’re lucky

A little while ago I was sitting round a relative’s house, it was a lovely afternoon surround by family, having a chat and watching two toddlers play. They were adorable, chasing each other around and laughing, the youngest was just... Continue Reading →

Where do I belong?

Now I have moved on from infertility treatment I find myself in a bit of a void. I feel like I’m not sure where I belong any more.  When I was in the thick of our infertility journey I frequented... Continue Reading →

What I can’t say

I didn't feel ready to talk for the longest time, when family or friends broached the subject I chose to change it or say the smallest amount possible.  I tried hard to be fine, I wanted everyone to think I... Continue Reading →

Why me?

This is something I think most people have said in their lives at some point but I have tried very hard not to say it, especially last year. Yes it was a rough one, we made the decision to embrace... Continue Reading →

When I’m old…

I am coming to terms with living a childfree lifestyle, slowly every day I accept it more and more, so the next step is to figure out what I want from my life now, but that’s a bigger ongoing issue.... Continue Reading →

You could just Adopt….

This post is slightly different from the ones I have written so far, I try to be mostly positive, looking for the best and happiest in all things but these are just my true thoughts and feelings on how people... Continue Reading →

Redundancy vs Motivation

I got made redundant from a very large retail company in November, right before Christmas. I'm sure there's no good time to be made redundant but right before Christmas sucks, my husband kept telling me to be careful with what... Continue Reading →

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